Wednesday, April 21, 2021

Friday, April 16, 2021

What Role Do Women Play In Islamic Leadership?

Should There Be More Sects In Islam?

Allah Is The Real Narcissist

 Narc? Nope, Nope, Nope.

Absolutely Not.

But have you ever reflected on this notion in it's Full Entirety. We pray to a Narcissistic God. An Absolute Tyrant with no Real Agenda but to control. And whilst we are busy exploring this notion of God's qualities as a Tyrannical God, we are missing out on essential time reflecting on the 99 Names Of Allah. 

Do Not Ask Your God For Anything

Picking Our Spiritual Mother: Not Everyone Wanted Khadija

 This is a remarkable story about Khadija. And how many people picked her as a Spiritual Mother. Often, many others did not. As a matter of fact, even her own Mother Always Chose Her Own Spiritual Teacher.


 

Thursday, April 15, 2021

Bumble Is The New Marketing

 Silicon Valley would have us disagreeing, but I think So. Bumble is now officially the New Marketing. 

Wednesday, April 7, 2021

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Flames: Sun Flame

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Flames: Moon Flame

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Flames: Star Flame

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Flames: Gabriel's Muse

 



Sakinama, for the tulips are blossoming and Spring's Arrival.

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Flames: Lohri Flames


Lohri: 


 

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Flames: Eternity Flame

       Eternity to me, will always be an Ad. Just like the dozens of advertisement on Billboards on every Highway. Eternity is not up for sale or rebuttal. It is a way to Eternal Salvation. The Eternity Flame is a person, who completes our cynicism with their Ethereal Connection to us. They are deceased persons that call out to us from the Other Side (1). They want us envision Heaven in all it's fullness, so as they help us stay entered with God and His Promise Of Eternity in Mind. The Eternity Flame is not Perfect. This is because Eternity is only a concept we believe in, when we have nothing and no-one left. When we have lost the Dreams we grew up with as Kids. 


Eternity Flames can be characterised by their ability to make us feel loved, cared for, nurtured, safe and protected at every step of the Journey of Life. This is, if we out in the proper work and tend to our Afterlife. To be able to absorb Eternity. we need to accumulate enough experience and heartache, which will lead us to appreciate Eternity and the Flame that brings it to us. 


Signs You Have Met Your Eternity Flame: 

As mentioned earlier, Eternity Flames are usually our mothers or authority figures in Religion. They can also be lovers, famous people in history, or our favourite Psychic. Eternity Flames don't exist for themselves. They live in a state of utter Devotion, Service To Humanity and Compassion For The People Who Are Suffering through Life's Tragedies. They can show up for us in a multitude of ways. They are sometimes referred to as "Our Guardian Angels". However, the concept of Eternity Flames is in fact, more Eternal than a single moment of suffering. 


Additional signs of An Eternity Flame: 

1. They are Super Intelligent.

2. They are Very Empathic, and need constant rest and reestablishment of their healthy Eco-System. 

3. They are Very Idealistic. 

4. They have a negative tendency to attract Chaos. Eternity Flames thrive on Chaos, because it presents them a chance to honour Eternity, through lessons, hymns, Rhymes Of Reason and unconditional love towards the suffering. 

5. They are Very Reliable and Very Strong; Archetypes of our Favourite SuperHero Comic Book Characters.


Lesson # 1: Senseless

Most of the times, what the Eternity Flames teach us seems Senseless. At times, it might even feel like they are Speaking In Tongues. These individuals are very Intense. They don't come back to earth to hand-out "Free Preachers" for our convenience. They don't arrive for our convenience. Their time is very limited. God expects us to Honour Their Time and Emotional Sphere, which is not something to be owned by any human. Whenever you have an experience with an Eternity Flame, it will show up in your brain and heart, as a forward moving rhythm. It is their way of moving you close to your final destination; The Afterlife. They also leave footprints on your soul, in doing so. Some of us may attest to this experience. We might find the Eternity Flame to be simply an Ad. I encourage you to always reflect back on the time you shared with your Eternity Flame, as a way to make sense of how they reached the State of Eternity themselves, and why they want the same for their CounterPart. 

Lesson # 2: The More Traumatic The Death, The More Peaceful Your Eternity Flame Will Be. 

Lesson # 3: People Are Strangers

Lesson # 4: Crazy Train 

Lesson # 5: The Circus Never Stops

Lesson # 6: God Is A Mystery

Lesson # 7: Fighting for God is Harder Than Fighting For Love, Life or Democracy

Lesson # 8: The Shadow Self Promises Darkness Even In The Afterlife: 

Lesson # 9: Happiness is a Promise of The Eternal Life: 

It is the Eternity Flame, out of all the flames that push us toward accepting the ever-lasting unconditional promise of God. The Death of a Human Being should symbolize Eternal Happiness. However, the Eternity Flame often falls short of their Goal of doing so. They are prone to their own limitations, often placed on them through their own destiny, which continues way into the After-Life.  

Lesson # 10: They connect us to Angels and Demons. This is not done by force, or to perform. Eternity Flames do this to preserve our space in the next life. 


The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Flames: The High Priestess

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Flames: Goddess Flame

A Muslim Perspective on Hail Mary

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Growth Flames: On The River Flame

 This flame is Special to me. It is a person who pushes you to the edge of your emotional landscape. This person helps you explore the rich vastness of one's inner depth and emotions, without trampling on them. 


There are so many lessons that I have learned from my River Flame. It is a journey where I discover more of myself emotionally, as compared to through pure mechanical ways of relating to myself and society. 

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Growth Flames: Jahannam Flame

 This person is our biggest motivator to stay away from HellFire. Their actions only light the path to more sin and evil, along the gradient of sexual promiscuity, abusiveness, exploitation and lack of boundaries. They have no desire to improve, unless it is through God alone. They are mostly tyrannical, and unable to see others grow and become the person they want to be. These type of people don't deserve praise or recognition, but instead need to monitored on a constant basis. They usually like to project their insecurities and weaknesses onto others; in doing so, they hurt themselves. 


There are many lessons to be learned from Jahannam Flames; mostly that we always need to be vary of them. These are the types of people who will teach you some of the world's most valuable lessons on Freedom From Slavery. They are akin to the book by Maya Angelou; " I know Why The Caged Bird Sings". They are not able to break free from their vices, (Consider the 7 deadly Sins). They are also very hypocritical when it comes to their belief system. You could not count on them to count from 1 to 2 without messing up, and thinking about themselves. They usually bottom out by the age of 25, when their shitty personality sets in. I have also learned that Jahannam Flames are only in our lives for a little while. As the title reads, they are destined for Hell without Professional Help. Even God fails them, and turns it around on such a person; so as to teach them a valuable lesson. :p 



Hehe, but don't take such an anti-God Flame to heart. They are meant to be walked through so that we can get to our higher destination; Heaven. 



Signs That Your Have Met Your Jahannam Flame: 

1. They try to own and possess you; just like the Devil. 

2. They are full of shit; lies, under-achievement and addicted to getting validation of members of the opposite sex.

3. They have little to no savings. 

4. They think everything in life comes for free. 

5. They lack a Spiritual Backbone. 




Wondering why we get involved in such painful relationships? Why we enter into cycles of self-awareness with the Jahannam Flames? Consider it a gift from God; a way to reach Purification Of The Heart. These flames are not to be butchered. They are to be tended to, watered (so as to Quell the fire of Jahannam out of our hearts; See: Al-Qasas). These are mostly sheep, following blindly without a thought of recompense. And while they might quote Jesus or Bhudda, or even the promises of The Highest King, they actually have nothing to lose in life. They never bothered doing the real work, or becoming who they want to be. They are vindictive losers when it comes to Eternity. 


Lesson # 1: Don't Let Jahannam Win 

Lesson # 2: Jahannam is full of Emotional Orgies; Say No, No, No 


The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Growth Flames: Good HouseKeeping Flame

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Growth Flames: Forest Flame

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Growth Flames: Country Flame

Journey Into Islamic Spirituality: Kaba Flame

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Growth Flames:GTA Flame

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Growth Flames: Jannah Flame

 This person is our biggest motivator to enter Paradise. It is usually our mother. It also can be dearly loves spouses, friends or even pets. 

Allah(Exalted Is He) Flame

The Conceptual Notions of Spiritual Growth Flames: Medusa Flame

Happiness is a Journey, Not A Destination

 Happiness is a way of being. Happiness comes from having a sense of belonging and purpose. Happiness comes from the opportunity to engage in things for which you have a passion. Happiness is the positive side effect of having a fulfilled and meaningful life. 



Here are some values you can incorporate to make sure you find happiness along the journey of life. 

Happy Journey :) 


1. Joy: 

2. Appreciation: 

3. Gratitude: 

4. Optimism: 

5. Satisfaction: 

6. Love: 

How To Stop Being On The Defensive

 1. Don't Evaluate Yourself on the Feelings Of Your Heckler: 

2. Break the Connecting Chains Between what others Say/Do/ Think and Your Own Self-Worth 

3. Apologising Behaviours where and apology is not due is a sickness

4. It invests control of one's feelings in another 

5. Break the Conditioning of Approval Seeking 

6. Make Death Your Personal Companion

Saturday, April 3, 2021

How To Make Life More Manageable

 1. Traffic:

2. Organization: 

3. Productivity: 

4. Full Faith In God: 

5. Practicing Compassion For Oneself: 

6. Minimalism:

7. Making Happiness and Well-Being A Top Priority: 

8. High-Value Goals:

9. Saving For Retirement:

10. Learning To Fight Alone: 

Unfortunately in life, not everyone will support you in your Dreams and Visions. Not everyone in our life is meant to stay. If you want something in life, such as a Dream Job or a nice house, you have to get it yourself. Don't count on a partner to save you.


The Sibling Rivalry: A New Outtake

I have been thinking about Sibling Rivalries a lot. How they form, and the Dysfunctional messes they create. Noone is stranger than the person unwilling to look at themselves in the mirror and grow up. We are each responsible for our own thoughts, actions and life journey. 


So, as you travel through this journey, and find yourself struggling in challenging Sibling Relationships, just remember it is never too late to change the way you deal with the Tough Stuff. 


 1. Goals: Should be mutually Inclusive of each other's needs, desires and wants.

2. Personalities: Often, siblings have clashing personalities. They need to work out their differences in private, preferably with a Licensed Psychologist or Holistic Psychiatrist, in the case of one or both of the Siblings dealing with Mental Illness. 

3. Situations: Our life is a trajectory full of Forests and Rivers, and tons of Clowns that we meet along the way who don't exactly value our well-being.n The best way to get through tough situations is to handle your portion of the responsibility or rights. It is always a good idea to refer to elders and resilient people, who have walked in your shoes. 



The Death That Shook My Life Apart

 Losing my mom was not easy. It felt like I could not Breathe. There was so much left unsaid, struggles and days where I would go without sleep, food and think of nothing but her passing. 

How To Network In Jannah

 I have been thinking a lot about Jannah. How it works, how we can get there and what we can do when we arrive?


Humans beings are looking to connect to God around every corner of the world. 

5 SureFire Ways To Beat Depression

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